I’m not going to start telling you that people are bad. I’m a big believer in the human kind and how good we can be. Because I know I am a good person, so why can’t anyone else be good? But we all want to be number one and we all want what’s best for us; this includes crushing some people on the way. But crushing the ones you care about, or who care about you is another story. The girl who back stabs her best friend to get a guy, or the coworker who back stabs you at the office so he can get the promotion and not you even if you’ve been working on it for years and he hasn’t. So how do you deal with it? How do you spot them? Can any advice help? Well, I’ve done some brain storming and that’s what I came up with.
– First, all back stabbers want something from you. They never just hang around you just for the sake of it. Whether it’s homework, money, your style, your friends or even your personality.
– Second, your gut feeling? yes that feeling that keeps telling that there’s something wrong with someone? Yes that one! TRUST IT!
– If someone betrays you and you decide to keep them in your life, remember this: Forgive but never forget. This has been my motto for a few years now, and believe me since I started using that motto no one has back-stabbed me. Because no one who has hurt me, deserves my full trust ever again. Who can do it once can do it twice.
– If someone doesn’t have friends at all there might be a reason for that. Just saying. But that doesn’t mean that popular ones can’t back stab you! Remember Mean girls? Think I’ve said enough!
Having the closest people to you back stab you is an awful thing but not a reason to hate the human race, or to become a monster yourself. I would have shared the most horrible stories of my life with you but why? it seems like complaining. I only shared what I learned. But feel free to share your stories and experiences 🙂
See you soon sinners! xox